Androgens And Women

     The question how to meet men is often accompanied by this other question, ‘where to meet men?’ Well, if you are one such woman asking yourself this question, then you definitely need to know how to meet new people at the earliest. I say so because there are men everywhere. Rather let me put it this way - there is no land on this earth where men are prohibited from treading on. From schools and colleges, from neighborhood to our offices, we work with men. We meet them all the time. But if you are looking for places to meet men, then it obviously means that you have missed all your chances of meeting men that fate had thrown your way. Never mind, where there is a will, there are options as well.

     If you are at this stage that you want to know where to meet men, then it means that you want to know about places where men are in the frame of mind to meet women. The first place that springs to your mind must be bars and pubs. Yes, guys here are most open to meet new people but one must also be careful about picking on the right kind of man at these places. Gyms and fitness centers are another popular places to meet new people. However if you ask me, I think that there isn’t any better place than a wedding to meet the most eligible bachelors. But these events are not as frequent as you would want them to be. Hence to better your chances, join some class. A dance class like salsa would be your best bet when you are trying to meet men.

     Know What Men Want

     More than the places what is important for those women who wonder how to meet men is to know what men look for in women. This again depends upon the type of man you are looking for. If it is just an eye candy that you want for a boyfriend, then dressing up well is all you require. But I was just wondering if we women could have better sense and go for those men who would be able to see through how we look and what we wear and appreciate the person we are. For such men, one needs a lot more than just looking cute. In fact, for some men a confident and intelligent woman is more of a turn on than one who is the woman of the evening but can’t sustain a short but interesting conversation with him.

     Options to Meet Men

     All said and done about where to meet men and what attributes are required  to get one interested in you. Now comes the part about what steps to take that would increase your chances of meeting men. Here are some options you can consider: Read more…

     There are some diseases that trigger so many troubles to the people. Premenstrual Syndrome is that kind of disease that leads to tongue-tied situation for the women in US and around the globe. Premenstrual Syndrome is the name given to the cyclic disorder of distressing symptoms and also the emotional and physical changes experienced by the women in their reproductive years. The symptoms usually appear one to two weeks prior to the menses and diminish and disappear significantly with in seven days after the start of menstruation.

     PMS is believed to be triggered by the changes in progesterone and estrogen levels. Many premenopausal women suffer from symptoms of PMS at different points in their menstrual cycle. Symptoms include cramping, bloating, mood changes, and breast tenderness tied to the menstrual cycle. It includes average cycle length, and common associated symptoms, such as menstrual cramps, ovulation pain, premenstrual syndrome (PMS) or premenstrual Dysphoric disorder (PMDD). All the suffering women are on the march to find out the perfect medication to how relieve the menstrual cramps and end up in bearing with the complexion.

     Some of the dietary measures can be helpful for the women with PMS and associated symptoms. The studies have shown that women with the more sugar consumption have the increased threat of being victimized or attacked by the Premenstrual Syndrome. Some the medical experts suggest women to cut back the intake of sugar and its alternative things this may come good for them as the PMS relief. Read more…

     Women are blessed with the gift of giving birth to a new life. But as with every blessing, this has a catch, reproduction in women is linked with the monthly process of menstruation. Menstruation refers to the biological phenomenon that occurs only in the female species of the human race. It signifies puberty in girls and is a sign that a girl is now a woman. The start of periods or the menstruation cycle is known as menarche. Menarche happens when the girl’s reproductive system has matured and starts working together. The uterus is the exclusive reproductive organ of the female body. The fallopian tubes and ovaries are associated with the uterus, that lies in the pelvic region of the abdomen. Every month a tiny egg is released by the ovaries, that travels down the fallopian tube and gets attached in the uterus. Hormone estrogen is released, that helps stimulate the uterus to make its wall thick by lining it with extra blood and tissue. It is a natural response to accommodate an embryo, if the egg gets fertilized by a sperm. If the egg is not fertilized, the uterus sheds the egg, the extra blood and the tissue lining out of the body. This monthly shedding by the uterus through the vagina, is known as the menstruation cycle or menstruation period.

     What is PMS and Mood Swings
     Premenstrual Syndrome (PMS) is seen when ovulation occurs and the start of menstruation. There are many symptoms of PMS that can be mild or very severe. PMS symptoms disrupt the personal and professional life of women for a few days, before the start of her periods. This emotional and physical disturbances are the body’s signal to a woman that she has ovulated and will be starting her monthly periods. PMS has over 150 recognized symptoms, and mood swings are a part of PMS.

     PMS and mood swings are caused due to fluctuating levels of hormones in the body after ovulation. These fluctuating hormones cause the normal tenderness in breasts, bloating or headaches in women. It is seen that if there are below normal levels of serotonin, a chemical in the brain, it may result in symptoms other than physical, like mood swings.

     Symptoms of PMS and Mood Swings
     As mentioned above, there are number of symptoms that are associated with PMS and mood swings. These symptoms vary in duration and severity from cycle to cycle and woman to woman. The following are the common symptoms associated with PMS and mood swings. Read more…

     Of the estimated 40 million suffers, more than 5 million require medical treatment for marked mood and behavioral changes. Often symptoms tend to taper off with menstruation and women remain symptom-free until the two weeks or so prior to the next menstrual period. These regularly recurring symptoms from ovulation until menses typify PMS, premenstrual syndrome. Over 150 symptoms have been attributed to PMS. After complaints of feeling “out-of-control”, anxious, depressed and having uncontrollable crying spells, the most common complaints are headache and fatigue. But symptoms may vary from month to month and there may even be symptom-free months. Although all women do not complain of all the symptoms at a time. The wonder of being a woman is that you always have a valid reason for your actions; PMS!

     Characteristically symptoms may be both physical and emotional. They may include physical symptoms as headache, migraine, fluid retention, fatigue, constipation, painful joints, backache, abdominal cramping, heart palpitations and weight gain. Emotional and behavioral changes may include anxiety, depression, irritability, panic attacks, tension, lack of co-ordination, decreased work or social performance and altered libido.

     Originally described in 1931 by an American neurologist, the grouping of symptoms has remained the same:

     A- Anxiety: irritable, crying without reason, verbally and sometimes physically abuse, feeling “out of control”, or Dr. Jekyl-Mr. Hyde behavior changes.

     D- Depression: confused, clumsy, forgetful, withdrawn, fearful, paranoid, suicidal thoughts and rarely suicidal actions.

     C- Cravings: food cravings, usually for sweets or chocolate; diary products including cheese, an on occasion, alcohol or food in general. This could also be explained logically as during the entire tenure of PMS, there may be a drop in your iron levels, causing you to crave for sweets.

     H- Heaviness or Headache: Fluid retention leading to headache, breast tenderness, abdominal bloating and weight gain. Read more…

     Ugly facts of smoking in women

     It’s essential that each and every woman takes care of her own health and well being. Giving up smoking is an important way to begin this approach and is strongly recommended by doctors to decrease the chances of serious health problems for women later in life. Some smoking related health problems can cause infertility as well as fatal diseases like cancer.

     How does smoking affect women?

     Women smokers suffer short term repercussions such as yellow teeth, bad breath and premature wrinkles, which can be seen early on in life. Research has shown that women are more susceptible to the dangers of nicotine as they have a slower metabolic cleansing system than men have. Women are 12 times more prone to death due to lung cancer than non-smokers are and have an increased risk of other cancers such as larynx, pharynx, mouth, kidney, esophagus, pancreas, kidney and bladder cancers. They are also 10 times more susceptible to death due to bronchitis and emphysema.

     Side effects of smoking in women

     Women smokers experience unusual vaginal discharge, bleeding, and an increased frequency of secondary amenorrhea, absence of menstruation and irregularity of periods. Women are at more risk of developing cardiovascular diseases such as heart attacks and strokes during the use of estrogens. Women who smoke are 72% more likely to suffer from infertility as compared to non-smokers. Read more…

     Long Denim skirt:
     Denims, being versatile in nature, when crafted into a sophisticated long skirt can truly boost the way a woman feels, whether at work or with friends. It can be paired with a simple tee on a lazy day or combined with a strappy, layered top for a night out at the disc. A must in every woman’s wardrobe, the length can be played up in various ways. A long denim skirt can be fitted to the ankles mixed with a stretch blend for a hot and sultry look. Or it can be fitting at the hips, flowing down, with a slit at the side to reveal a flash of leg! Throw in some great stilettos and you are ready to melt the hearts of many. One can also find it embellished with embroidery or sequins though the classic, blue, long denim skirt has always been the one most favored.

     Gypsy Skirt:
     If you think it is time to make a splash in many colors and flowing fabrics…the gypsy skirt is designed for you. Reminiscent of the ’60s and ’70s look, the fashion industry has implemented various ways to transform these gypsy skirts into what we see on the fashion runways today. This boho-chic look can be crinkled and flouncy in three tiers cascading all the way to the feet. Fabrics could range from transparent to layered cotton and can be teamed with short tank tops; peasant tops or embroidered ones for that ethnic touch. Long dangling earrings combined with colorful headgear like bandannas create a cool and casual look for those willing to go a little overboard! Read more…

     Street Style Look:
     This look although may have been noticed earlier in the 1980s music videos is revamped and how! Faux leather jackets and hot pants or micro minis, these are back with a bang. Team this up with bootylicious stylish casual tops and get ready to rock. Belts with a hint of metal studs can help to complete the look. Big boots are back; flaunt them with your short numbers!

     Casual Dresses:
     Dresses are no longer meant only for the snobbish cocktail parties, short summery dresses are very much in vogue as casual clothing. Look for clean silhouettes and feel-good fabrics. If these need to be worn for a casual affair, then you would need to be comfortable in the particular outfit. You can team it with a short shrug for work and for that late night party, add a necklace and some glitzy earrings with classy stilettos and some sexy lip color to party the night away!

     Torn Denims:
     Although an ’80s look, torn denims are back with a vengeance. Ripped pants or jackets are considered cool on the fashion scenario. Go in for short ripped jackets or pants with ripped edges. You must ensure you look trendy without really looking old fashioned!

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     Q1: I hate the dating games that men play. I don’t know how to deal with momentary flings or someone who gets too clingy?
     As a relationship advice and dating advice for women in the real world, I would like to say there is no one out there with lots of time to know what you want. We women love to hide in our shells and play the ‘guess my feelings’ game. Sadly, in the real world, you’ve got to speak up. Selective mutism (not speaking up when necessary) is not going to be entertained in a man’s world. Men by nature, are not mind readers as they themselves like to be cajoled and listened to. Hence, when a man is making his moves on you, make it very clear about what you want and what you are expecting. This will save the time and effort for both of you and save the trouble of having strings attached or cutting the strings, whatever be the case.

     Q2: My husband never bothers to listen to what I have got to say. Neither does he take any decisions around the house. How am I to know what he wants?
     From the olden times of your grand-mother to your mother and now to yours, the situation to men being indecisive about home affairs has remained the same. This stems from the fact, that the primal instinct of men is to be a protector, provider and possessor. And the role of a woman, is that of a ‘homemaker’ (sorry, if I am getting too cynical). It’s with these instincts that we act as a couple. Thus, when it comes to taking a decision regarding home affairs, he will always respect your decision, support it and will help you if it’s not wrong. That’s exactly what he will do, because that’s exactly what he wants. The other problem of not being a listener is rooted in the fact, that men procrastinate. Yes, they need to be pushed a little, but not nagged.

     Q3: I am seeing this guy for a month and I’ve always stopped him from getting to the third base. I am scared things will get further than that. How do I tell him my dilemma?
     Hmmm…we all go though this. Don’t we? The ‘right time’ may be right there in front of us, but certainty of it, is always uncertain. As relationship advice for girls, especially below 18, I suggest, keep this moment for later, when you are aware of what you are doing. Right now 18 may just seem a number to you, but trust me, you will ripe in your understanding with years that pass by. For girls above the age of 18, there is nothing wrong in feeling the way you are feeling. He may be coming on too strong for you, but stop him there, talk it out to him, share your fears and things will workout. If he really cares for you, he will understand you. Read more…

     The problem in addressing the question of what men find attractive in women is that there are different types of men, whose needs change with time. When the male is young, he just wants that cute looking girl in class irrespective of the fact that she believes that Harry Potter and unicorns are real. As the boy turns into a teen, he wants to be dating a ‘well endowed’ blond (to put it euphemistically), irrespective of the fact she is a total head-case. As the teen becomes a man, two types of men can be seen. One that still wants a well endowed blond, although a different one each time; and the other who looks for a relationship with a woman who will complete him, understand him, and share his interests, his hobbies and his life (and his bed). And as the man reaches the age where mid-life crisis starts overwhelming him, relationship issues crop up in his marriage, and the man once again wants a younger, better-looking and yet well endowed blond only to find out later after this adulterous extramarital affair that ‘he already had what he always wanted’. Or something to that effect.

     All of which makes the qualities men find attractive in women more and more complicated and ever-changing.

     And yet, there are still some things men like in women, that have stood the test of time, and will continue to do so irrespective of the mental age of the man. What are these?

     A Perfect 10
     I’m starting with this point because, well, lets face it, men are visual creatures and the first thing that appeals to the very depths of their soul is the stark attractiveness of a woman. While the definition of beauty, what men find attractive physically varies from one man to another, a slim figure, yet one which is well ’rounded’, with beautiful round (almond shaped for others) and light colored eyes, long hair… you know, the entire package is something that all men crave for! Also a woman with a good sense in dressing, someone who knows how to accentuate her better physical endowments and hide the less flattering ones is also a turn on. So while you may criticize my choice of the first point on what men find attractive in girls, this is really the first thing most men see. Read more…

          The conventional winter boots are the boots that have been used by people living in cold climates, for a pretty long period of time. The design of the boot is extremely comfortable for the foot. The design of the boot is simple and the material that is used in the process of manufacture is also simple. These factors tend to reduce the production cost of the winter boots. The following are two very nice and comfortable designs of winter boots for women.

     Valenky Boots: Women who are searching for winter boots should definitely try out the Valenky boots. These boots were conventionally developed in the Slav nations and nations like Russia, Ukraine and Latvia. The Valenky boots are traditionally made from a material that is known as felt. The felt is basically a type of non woven cloth and is made by matting, condensing and pressing fibers. Felt as a finished product is thick and is capable of retaining heat. In addition to that, Felt makes the Valenky boots extremely comfortable. Among the winter boots for women, these boots can be rated as the most comfortable ones. The Valenky boots go well with any type of casual wear.

     Ugg Boots: Like the Valenky boots, the Ugg boots are also very comfortable boots and are made from sheepskin. The inside of the Ugg boots are lined with soft wool from the inside. The outer surface of the boots is tanned leather. The Ugg boots are also very durable, due to the high tenacity material that is used to manufacture them. These boots are suitable for casual and every day wear. To know more on women’s footwear, you may read women’s shoes.

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